"I love you." What else?

                                                                                                             

"Love is good but what else?"

I am not so much moved by the panoply of love in relationships. I am commanded to love even my enemies! It therefore means i can 'love' anyone.
What strikes me profoundly is COMPATIBILITY IN PURPOSE. 
Let us take our cue from the first marriage on earth.

Eve was given to Adam to help him with his vision; that is the meaning of helpmeet [a suitable partner in purpose and destiny]. Adam responded thus: "...this is now bone of my bones [symbolic: bones of the same function converge at the same location]..."

It will shock you to know that people who are now divorced are still in love! In fact that is why they got married in the first place! They divorced [DIVISION] because they never had a similar VISION!
Their lawyers call it "irreconcilable differences". This is why it is dangerous to get married to someone you don't have common grounds or share similar values. Divorce or Division literally implies two separate visions or two different voices.

In the long run, when push comes to shove, it is not "i love you" that will sustain your marriage rather it is compatibility of purpose that sustains it.

"...where there is no [common] vision, the [married] people perish [divorce]!..."



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